" The Crushing weight of should"

You should be this, no you should be that, you're too skinny, or maybe a tad bit too fat? You should wear this, or that—do these statements sound familiar? To me, they certainly do. In today’s world, it feels as though societal expectations are omnipresent, perpetually reminding us of the standards we are expected to meet. These pressures make themselves known through various forms, from the advertisements we see daily to the conversations we hear among friends and family. Whether it’s through social media influencers showcasing their idealized lives or fashion magazines dictating the latest trends, the message is clear: we are constantly being told how we should look, how we should dress, and even how we should behave. The irony lies in the fact that the more society strives to mold us into a singular image of what is deemed acceptable, the more it inadvertently reinforces the divide between appearance and reality.

The normal individual cant attain that "perfect" body or image portrayed on the cover of a magazine when it probably took more than good genetics to be able to portray this beautiful illusion conjured up to feed consumerism.

The normal individual more often than not fails to meet social expectations.

It doesn't take much to see people turning their gaze from the needy or falling into wayward passions.

The truth is that imperfection is part of our natural existence, part of the human experience is acknowledging the fact that we are all riddled with imperfections.

This said, there is a profound truth to be acknowledged. The truth is that even though we are all filled with imperfections and more often than not come closer to the opposite of what is expected from us, there is this pure sense of magic that lies in our individualities.

Each of us carries a unique story shaped by our experiences, backgrounds, and personal journeys, which contribute to the rich tapestry of human existence. Embracing our differences not only fosters a deeper connection with ourselves but also cultivates empathy and understanding towards others. When we celebrate our quirks and flaws, we begin to dismantle the unrealistic standards imposed upon us and create a more inclusive environment where authenticity thrives. In recognizing that perfection is a myth, we can shift our focus from trying to fit into a mold to appreciating the beauty of our diverse selves. This shift is essential in a world that often equates worth with appearance, as it allows us to redefine success and happiness on our own terms, free from the shackles of societal judgment.